I was happy when X-Factor rejoined X-men and they put Scott and Jean on seperate teams for precisely those reasons, John!

I agree some writers don't know how write relationships. Other writers I think are letting personal crises like divorce sour them to all relationships and at those points they may not be able to write any happy couple together.

I would be okay with Scott and Jean as a happily married couple provided we never again see alternate reality children or mad scientists going after their dna. If their relationship had have remained as it was like when X-Factor first rejoined the X-Men, or even when they were first just married I would be okay. With soured me with them as a couple is Cable, the other Nates ,and Rachel.