About the wolves mating, Alpha males and Females mate first then the males sex organ becomes further enlarged and they are stuck together for a period of time so that his sperm has a chance to get up there to the egg first. After the Alpha male is done he can go around knocking up the other females if he chooses but the other male wolves in the pack can still mate with the alpha female thus spreading their line. And even with that example on the other end of the spectrum male tigers will kill their own young just so they can knock up the mother again...Females aren't receptive until their young reach a certain age I believe, its been a while since I wrote that report. And in humans some males become mad because their wives spend more time with the kids then their husband. After all she married the husband and devoted her life to him "til death do us part" not the kids. I've seen this in my own home.

My mother was adoted by her biological moms sister and there was non of that preferred love crap going on...lol her real mom lived right across the street from her! No my mom loved the adoted mom alot if not more, she did know she was adoted and that she played with her brothers and sister across the street. She always said I have two mothers but I only have one mom(my). Guess who it was. If my mom was adoted outside her bio family in the same conditions housing wise I believe she would still come to the same conclusion because thats the type of person she is.

I also have/had (lost touch after highschool) a friend whos mom was adopted and her grandparents didn't tell her until later in life. Her mom loved her parents and never knew the difference...no DNA envolved, most of DNA is junk and tandem repeats anyway. Granted after she found out she went a little crazy and had to come to terms with this new truth, but who wouldn't, anyhow to make a long story short she did her whole family tree, for both her families I believe (bio and adopted) and came to the same conclusion as my mother.

People deserve a lot more credit then you give them. Blood blood blood, if my parents had died or put me up for adoption there is no way in hell I would want to be raised by any of my relatives. Some of them are great people but have a lot on their plate and the rest of them are just plain crazy. And knowing me, I fall for anyone whos the least bit kind to me a weakness or strength take your pick, I would love them with all my being. But hey I'm sure I'm just one of those rare cases:rolleyes Sorry if any of this seemed undoly harsh but it touched a bit close to home talking about adoptions and such which are not the same as having step children or being married into a family. Children are half grown with a mind of their own often time in remarriages and of course the child will have a preference to who they want to be with. The parent will also has that same mindset. The parents should explain that to the children before they get married. Everyone just needs to work harder to break those barriers if they feel its necessary.

Back on topic I'm all for marriage...just call it something different. And before anyone starts in on me it's not how you may think I'm thinking. I think that gays and lesbians would be more careful with their marriage decisions since they had to fight so hard for them, same with interracial, and they wouldn't be as riddled with divorce as straight couples. (I hate that word it implies someones bent over or something anyway). The divorce rate, I dont think, would be anywhere near 50%. If everything goes under marriage then the nondivorce percentage will go up and the government atribute it to straight couples regaining family values:rolleyes . A new name, including husband and wife terms, would I dont know revolutionize them gaining the right futher down the road. I have thought over how they would also segregate the population with new names but "if you want everything you'll wind up with nothing," Lulu FFX. Instead of making the new name into some horrid second class citizen thing it should be embraced and the whole gay/lesbian community could be involoved coming up with a name and it could be voted upon. Throwing this democratic system in the far right winged peoples faces. I don't know, I want everyone to be happy...Im always on the fence. After the old geezers are dead this world will be much better place. Less racism, intolerance and hate...Im not completely naive and know it will still go on but I can't help thinking if the past could be erased from everyones minds what the world would look like today. If history is not known how could it repeat itself?
Void

its your love affair
on a quiet sunday afternoon
and your speedy pills
you should know im into you
why would you not try to be?
why would you not try to see?




its about your blue hair
i want to stay the night with you
you got the beamiest face
car turns right im into you
right from wrong is not quite seen
right from wrong is it everything?

Howie Day