Maybe it is not normal to see a couple of men getting married, but I believe it's pretty natural.

If two persons, no matter the sex of each of them, want to get married and spend their lives with each other, it must not be a forviden thing.

If Church does not want to perform this marriage, it still exist the civil marriage, State and Church are both separate, don't the?

So gay organizations shoul promote reforms in the State in order to get the same rights as heterosexual couples, for example get married.