If this concerns domino's reply to Phoenickx over in Shades, I think she (you are a she, right?) was well within her right to say something. I don't think she meant any disrespect. We all have a duty to keep an eye on this place, not just John C and I. Yes, some things should be left to the mods, and I can't tell you where that line should be drawn. I say everyone should use their best judgement about whether to directly confront someone about a problem, do it in private, or talk to a mod. If anyone has any ideas about how to figure out the best option for a certain situation, I'd be happy to hear them.