I get what you mean about liking it for being tacky. I have a list of movies and things I like simply bc they ARE so lame. But lets not pretend this is a good thing.

I get what you mean on the sex issue and I like the honesty. I get where you coming from now. I grew up in an uber-conserative home and never really shared any of those views. Frankly, we are more moralistic than practical and we are missing the real problems for false ones. Yes, it is about social appearances rather than true convictions. This is really complicated and we'd need another thread to thrash this, but I doubt we'd pounce on you for this. I think we're smart enough to realize that we many of these things are grey areas.

I have very complex 'squidgy' views on these taboo issues (like what is really wrong with polygamy?...I think BC is discussing this right now), but thats for another thread.